Chava Tova bat Perel, a mother of 8, is very ill.
TORAH AXIOM: There are no accidents – every thing comes from Heaven except Fear of Heaven. When I sent out my Drasha last week, I had no idea what was in the Good Shabbos Story. Not the Alas poor Yorik from me or Yorik Yorik in the first story. When I wrote the Giyores Story which I had planned for weeks it was after the e-mail had gone out that the wedding of the Ger Story came in. Only after I mailed out the second Good Shabbos Story did I read both! From last week:
Devarim: 22:6 If a bird’s nest chance to be before thee in the way, in any tree or on the ground, with young ones or eggs, and the dam sitting upon the young, or upon the eggs, thou shall not take the dam with the young; 7 thou shall in any wise let the dam go, but the young thou may take unto thyself; that it may be well with thee, and that thou may prolong thy days.
First let us take the normal Pshat of Rashi that neither adds nor detracts from the above Axiom. This excludes [a bird nest that is] ready at hand. – [Chul. 139a, Sifrei 22:55] you shall not take the mother. While she is on her young, [whereas if she is only hovering overhead, you may take her from upon her young]. – [Chul. 140b]
7. in order that it should be good for you, [and you should lengthen your days]. If in the case of a commandment easy [to fulfill, like this one] for which there is no monetary expense, Scripture says,“[Do this] in order that it should be good for you, and that you should lengthen your days,” then how much greater is the reward for [the fulfillment of] commandments that are more difficult to observe [or for which there is a monetary expense]. — [Sifrei 22:64, Chul. 142a]
Now from here, you might say aha! The Torah itself mentions chance – therefore you are to know that this is no accident, something that happened, it is your being tested. The chance of you finding a birds nest that would be of value to you just coming your way is pretty small unless you have a bunch of pigeons who decided to nest right under your drainage gutter and your later can reach there. Otherwise the probability becomes very small so you are being tested by HASHEM all the more so Macaw Parrots that are worth $1600 each if sold by a pet store. It is something like the words of Rogers and Hammerstein from the King and I in the song
Hello Young Lovers “You walk down the street on a chance that you’ll meet and you meet not really by chance.” Know that you are being tested and not to fall into a trap like Elisha ben Ahuviya who left the Torah and became Acher.
Elul
The Financial Crises is no accident. Perhaps the materialistic side was greed. However, there is a religious side to the crisis. We say but do we really mean it – Parnasa (income) is in the hands of HASHEM. The pray TETAN TOKEF where we say “Who will live and who will die”, “Who will become rich and who will become poor, who will be lifted up and who will be pushed down.” These too are no idle chatter of Rabbi Amnon on his death bed in the Schul on Rosh Hashanah. Sometimes when one becomes too rich he has too much pride and a little pushing down and humbling is necessary by G-D. Now what about the union worker in
HOW DO WE OVERCOME THE FINANCIAL CRISES? MY SOLUTION CAN BE SAID IN ONE SENTENCE: 29:8 Observe therefore the words of this covenant, and do them, that ye may make all that ye do to prosper.
The Chofetz Chaim suggested that much of the financial crises in his day was caused by disbelieve in G-D which put a Gezara (ruling – usually by a group of Rabbis or a well known Rabbinical Authority but in our case G-D) on the money and the money became part of the disbelief. If there is no trust in G-D, then there is no trust in money.
Some of us can think within the normal Tshuvah Box and repent. However, like in Engineering: http://www.tehachapi.com/loop/ One must find a solution outside of the box to work for himself. I like to work on the main weaknesses – getting side tracked, wasting Torah Time, clowning around perhaps more than to get a smile out of someone and maybe not working out in the gym hard enough and goofing off instead of getting back quicker to Torah. I want to set an example of one of my main fights with my Yetzer Hara which is to over-eat or let my diet slip.
Of course fighting my Yetzer to gain and not take off weight was the hardest. I have been to a number of kosher meal affairs and Kiddush (es) in Schul this month and since I started my no white flour at all diet; I have lost approximately
Rabbi, you might say to me – you’re right that one should watch his diet and one should exercise but you are like a politician all promises and no plan. So I took this from AOL “Losing it by Jillian Michaels”: What Does “Toning” Really Mean?
Let me just give a little clarification regarding the word “toning.” The word has nothing to do with the size of a particular muscle; it refers rather to making a muscle lean by burning intramuscular fat, and conditioning the muscle for better performance.
You can’t actually build muscle mass unless you’re eating more calories than you’re burning, but you can “tone” a muscle to make it leaner. To tone your muscles, you should plan to do weight training four days a week, working each muscle group twice a week, with two days of rest after training a particular muscle group.
For example, try:
Monday: Chest, shoulders, triceps, quads, upper abs, obliques
Tuesday: Back, biceps, hamstrings, glutes, lower abs
Wednesday: Rest
Thursday: Chest, shoulders, triceps, quads, upper abs, obliques
Friday: Back, biceps, hamstrings, glutes, lower abs
Saturday: Rest
Sunday: Cardio
Remember, exercise is the architect, but recovery is the builder. You have to give your body adequate recovery time to heal itself and grow stronger. If you work out too often without resting, you’ll just continue to break your muscles down.
Why talk about the physical body’s health for doing Tshuvah? Because when one is weak physically it is more difficult to have the strength to over come the Yetzer (Don’t leave us in old age when our strength fails us don’t abandon us – Selichos).
I want also to mention the difference between the other two monotheistic religious and Judaism on sin and repentance. The two others attribute a lot more power to the Satan to tempt us and therefore the pedophile who attacks a child when caught will say, the devil made me do it. It was not really me. Our attitude is that a person does not sin unless a spirit of folly enters his head (you have to be out of your mind to sin). But contrary to a savior forgiving him or dying for his sin, each individual has his or her own Yetzer Hara and the sin is within him/her and the individual has the power to overcome the sin and repent. In short when a Jew sins the buck stops here.
Below I will give some examples of the Yetzer of the earning money above ones capability, libido, laziness, and gluttony.
For others the inclination pushes them to get wealth beyond their abilities. Some people waste a hundred dollars a week buying lottery tickets where they have the same probability of winning if they spent a dollar and bought one ticket. Still others if given the opportunity try to steal. Reuven and Shimon work for guarding a company that has gold for plating certain objects. Somebody steals a large quantity of gold while they are on guard duty. It turns out that one of the guards borrowed a cutting machine from one of the workers. Has anyone thought about saving each week the hundred dollars and investing either in an interest paying account or maybe not now but when the market stabilizes a green energy fund. As they say “Get real!” the chances that you are going to be a millionaire over night without work and savings are millions perhaps billions to one. WHO IS RICH? ONE WHO IS SATISFIED WITH HIS
For others sitting around like a couch potato or sleeping is their Yetzer. They can kill time and do nothing. I once was burnt out after completing a project at work like non-stop for a few days so I wanted to say a few words with a co-worker. To which he replied to me, “If you have nothing to do, don’t do it here.” He was of course right; I just had to unwind a bit. So it happens to all of us even workaholics like me. Even a type A personality needs rest but too much will make one feel like a lazy bum.
The Libido Yetzer: “She wore a miniskirt just
Finally, we live in a society that the average person in a western culture today is like a rich person in a previous generation. We have fruits and vegetables almost in season all year around. We go to wedding and there are choices of chicken, beef, lamb, young chicken, etc. and we want to eat all. We have choices of desserts various cakes, cookies, gelatins, chocolates, fruits, ice cream, pies, custards and you name it. Our Yetzer pulls us to try each and everything available. Or the wife wants to cook and prepare food and stuffs the husband. I saw my friend Yod go from a flat stomach to a person who looks like he is in the 9th month all do to his wife shoveling food at him as well as his Yetzer for food. It is also my main Yetzer from the “clean the plate, because people are starving in
Other Yetzer problems stem from anxiety or super cleanliness. Others from insecurity so they speak lashon hara to put other people down, and the list goes on and on, the main thing is to know your own Yetzer and fight it. It is yours no devil tempting you. You either got it from your environment like the ess ess mein kind that I received growing up with the threat no dessert unless you clean your plate. Some have little or no respect for their elders or they take out their frustrations from work or a bad day on their kids. And last but not least no matter what happens the only one who can repent and be forgiven for your sins upon death is you and nobody else. I’m working on my own Yetzer for this that and the other thing is you working on yours?
Ki Savo
Last year, I wrote: This is one of the hardest Parshiyos for me to write about. Not that the curses do not supply material, but I don’t want to talk about Am Yisrael faults. I may add that I don’t like to spit out fire and brimstone. That is not the Torah was as we say that the way of Torah is “Noam” (pleasant) and all its paths are Shalom. So I like to think positive.
Nobody explains so well things about Shemita, Tithes, Confession of the First Fruits but Rashi so I am using him a bit more this week than usual.
26:1 And it shall be, when thou art come in unto the land which the LORD thy God gives thee for an inheritance, and dost possess it, and dwell therein;
And it will be, when you come… and you possess it and settle in it. This [verse, which is immediately followed by the commandment of bringing the firstfruits,] teaches us that they were not obligated [to bring] “firstfruits” until they conquered the Land and divided it. – [Kid. 37b]
This is first section of the Parsha is read on Pessach and spoken when bringing the Bikurim (first fruits) from Shevous through Sukkos. Originally the person was called up to read from a Torah Scroll the confession. When the illiteracy rate increased after the destruction of the first
2 that thou shall take of the first of all the fruit of the ground, which thou shall bring in from thy land that the LORD thy God gives thee; and thou shall put it in a basket and shall go unto the place which the LORD thy God shall choose to cause His name to dwell there.
Of the first. But not all the first, because not all fruits are subject to [the mitzvah of] “firstfruits”-only the seven species [for which the
When one brought Bikurim, he would bring let us say large figs as Bikurim, smaller figs as addition to the Bikurim and dried figs for the display too.
3 And thou shall come unto the priest that shall be in those days, and say unto him: ‘I profess this day unto the LORD thy God, that I am come unto the land which the LORD swore unto our fathers to give us.’
You have only the kohen in your days, whatever he is [and although he may not be as wise or holy as those of previous generations, you are obliged to address him with the respect due to his office as an agent of God]. — [Sifrei 26:3] and say to him. That you are not ungrateful [for all that God has done for you]. I declare this day. [The expression, “this day,” teaches us that the one who brings the firstfruits must make this declaration] once a year, and not twice [even though he may return with more firstfruits later that same year]. — [Sifrei 26:3]
So you should know that not every Cohain is like Rav Kuk Shlita of Rehovot or Rav Shar-Yeshuv Cohain Shlita of Haifa but perhaps only a Reform or Conservative Cohain with good genealogy back to Aaron HaCohain. The Torah comes to tell us that if he is a Kosher Cohain, you get the Mitzvah anyway just as if you brought it to a Cohain Rabbi and Gadol B’Torah.
4 And the priest shall take the basket out of thy hand, and set it down before the altar of the LORD thy God.
You have only the kohen in your days, whatever he is [and although he may not be as wise or holy as those of previous generations, you are obliged to address him with the respect due to his office as an agent of God]. — [Sifrei 26:3] and say to him. That you are not ungrateful [for all that God has done for you]. I declare this day. [The expression, “this day,” teaches us that the one who brings the firstfruits must make this declaration] once a year, and not twice [even though he may return with more firstfruits later that same year]. — [Sifrei 26:3]
The Cohain could be the age of your child, a boorish person, etc. but if he receives the basket from you Rashi comes to explain to us that he is an agent of G-D.
And the kohen shall take the basket from your hand. In order to wave it. [How so?] The kohen places his hand under [the basket, beneath the level of] the owner’s hand [which is grasping the basket at the top, by its rim] (Sukk. 47b), and [in this position,] waves [the basket together with its owner].
If Rashi would not explain to me that the owner and Cohain do it together, I would think it was the Cohain only.
5 And thou shall speak and say before the LORD thy God: ‘A wandering Aramean was my father, and he went down into Egypt, and sojourned there, few in number; and he became there a nation, great, mighty, and populous.
And you shall call out. Heb. וְעָנִית [Usually meaning to “respond.” However, in this context, this word] denotes the raising of the voice. — [Sotah 32b] An Aramean [sought to] destroy my forefather. [The declarer] mentions [here] the kind deeds of the Omnipresent [by stating]:“An Aramean [sought to] destroy my forefather.” That is, Laban, when he pursued Jacob, sought to uproot [i.e., annihilate] all [the Jews], and since he intended to do so, the Omnipresent considered it as though he had actually done it (Sifrei 26:5), for [regarding] the pagan nations of the world, the Holy One, Blessed is He, considers the [mere] intention [of an evil deed] as [being equivalent to] the actual perpetration [of the deed itself]. — [Yerushalmi Peah 1:1 at end] who then went down to
This is one of the few times that Torah specifically mentions our family/national history. It is to remind us that we must review and study the past and learn from our mistakes for the future. One who gets divorced because he married a woman for her beauty or her money only and now she posses none will have to review why he wants a divorce before going through it and he must make sure that he does not make the same mistake the second or third time around. History tends to repeat itself unless quick and corrective action is taken. One who doesn’t know mankind’s history is not fit to lead as he will make mistakes that other already made and corrected.
6 And the Egyptians dealt ill with us, and afflicted us, and laid upon us hard bondage. 7 And we cried unto the LORD, the God of our fathers, and the LORD heard our voice, and saw our affliction, and our toil, and our oppression. 8 And the LORD brought us forth out of
The context is the Mishkan for sacrifices but Rashi says it is recognizing The
10 And now, behold, I have brought the first of the fruit of the land, which Thou, O LORD, hast given me.’ And thou shall set it down before the LORD thy God, and worship before the LORD thy God.
Then, you shall lay. [The repetition of the expressions וְהִנִּיחוֹ (verse 4) and here, וְהִנַּחְתּוֹ] teaches us [that there were two procedures involving laying the hands on the basket and waving it, namely] that [the owner] takes [the basket] after the kohen has [completed] waving it; [the owner subsequently] grasps it in his hand during his declaration, and then repeats the waving procedure.
11 And thou shall rejoice in all the good which the LORD thy God hath given unto thee, and unto thy house, thou, and the Levite, and the stranger that is in the midst of thee.
From here, [our Rabbis] said that the firstfruits declaration is recited only at the time of “rejoicing,” namely, from Shavuoth until Sukkoth, for [then] a person gathers in his grain, fruit, wine and oil [over which he rejoices]. However, from Sukkoth and onwards, he must bring [his firstfruits to the
12 When thou hast made an end of tithing all the tithe of your increase in the third year, which is the year of tithing, and hast given it unto the Levite, to the stranger, to the fatherless, and to the widow, that they may eat within thy gates, and be satisfied,
Rashi at this point is going to explain the Shemita cycle in details and we are coming to the end of the cycle on Rosh Hashanah and the Assemblage on Sukkos.
When you have finished tithing all the tithes of your produce in the third year. When you have finished separating the tithes of the third year [of the seven-year shemittah cycle]. It fixes a time for the removal [of the tithes from the house] and for the [accompanying] confession [regarding their proper disposal] on the Eve of Passover [for the removal, and for the confession, in the afternoon of the last day of Passover] of the fourth year, as it is said,” At the end of (מִקֵּץ) three years, you shall take out [all the tithe of your crop] (Deut. 14:28), and later on, Scripture also uses this expression: “At the end of (מִקֵּץ) seven years“ (Deut. 31: 10), referring to the mitzvah of הַקְהֵל [assembling all the people in the Temple courtyard, to hear the king read the book of Deuteronomy]. Just as there, the mitzvah was to be performed on a Festival, here too [in the case of removing the tithes and reciting the confession, the mitzvah must be performed] on a Festival. But one could suggest that just as there [in the case of הַקְהֵל, the mitzvah was performed] on the Festival of Sukkoth, here too, [the mitzvah must be performed] on the Festival of Sukkoth. Therefore, Scripture states here: ”When have you finished taking all the tithes in the third year”- [this refers to] a festival on which all tithes have been completely taken: this is Passover [not Sukkoth], because many trees have their fruits picked after Sukkoth [but not after Passover]. Consequently, the separating of tithes of the third year’s produce will conclude on Passover of [the following year, namely] the fourth year. And anyone who has delayed [in distributing] his tithes is ordered by Scripture to remove [any remaining tithes] from the house [on Passover of the fourth year of the shemittah cycle]. — [Sifrei 26:12] the year of the tithe. [The third year of each shemittah cycle is called “the year of the tithe” because] it differs from its preceding two years insofar as it is a year in which only one of the tithes separated in the two preceding years is separated. During the first and second years of the shemittah cycle, the tithes separated are: a) מַעֲשֵׂר רִאשׁוֹן, “the first tithe,” as the verse says, “[Speak to the Levites, and say to them,] When you take from the children of
13 then thou shall say before the LORD thy God: ‘I have put away the hallowed things out of my house, and also have given them unto the Levite, and unto the stranger, to the fatherless, and to the widow, according to all Thy commandment which Thou hast commanded me; I have not transgressed any of Thy commandments, neither have I forgotten them.
[Sifrei 26:13] I have removed the holy [portions] from the house. This refers to: a)“the second tithe,” and b) נֶטַע רְבָעִי, the fruit yielded by a tree in its fourth year of growth [both of which are termed קֹדֶשׁ, holy (portions)], they must be brought up to
The confession was to make sure that one really gave some charity to have given them unto the Levite, and unto the stranger, to the fatherless, and to the widow, and that was the main ceremony and guarantor for the poor. It was also a hidden warning to those that understood after the curses section. Not giving charity to any one of the group Levy – Levite, poor would bring retribution and also helping the stranger in your midst. But to the Orphan and the widow there was even a stronger meaning: Your children could become orphans and your wife could be a widow if you don’t do what HASHEM commanded.
14 I have not eaten thereof in my mourning, neither have I put away thereof, being unclean, nor given thereof for the dead; I have hearkened to the voice of the LORD my God, I have done according to all that Thou hast commanded me. 15 Look forth from Thy holy habitation, from heaven, and bless Thy people Israel, and the land which Thou hast given us, as Thou didst swear unto our fathers, a land flowing with milk and honey.’ 16 This day the LORD thy God commands thee to do these statutes and ordinances; thou shall therefore observe and do them with all thy heart, and with all thy soul.
Every day is a new day and a new mitzvah. Here the word might (strength physical and monetary) is not used and since most of us know the Shema prayer by heart this has a special meaning.
Rashi notes: [Tanchuma 1] You will observe and fulfill them. A heavenly voice is blessing you: “You have brought the firstfruits today- [so] will you merit to bring them next year!”
17 Thou hast avouched the LORD this day to be thy God, and that thou would walk in His ways, and keep His statutes, and His commandments, and His ordinances, and hearken unto His voice.
We do not find any equivalent expression in the Scriptures [which might give us a clue to the meaning of these words]. However, it appears to me that [the expression הֶאמִיר] denotes separation and distinction. [Thus, here, the meaning is as follows:] From all the pagan deities, you have set apart the Lord for yourself, to be your God, and He separated you to Him from all the peoples on earth to be His treasured people. [Notwithstanding,] I did find a similar expression [to הֶאמִיר], which denotes “glory,” as in the verse“[How long will] all workers of violence praise themselves (יִתְאַמְּרוּ) ?” (Ps. 94:4).
Moshe concludes the Drasha with the fact that we must keep and obey the Torah
18 And the LORD hath avouched thee this day to be His own treasure, as He hath promised thee, and that thou should keep all His commandments; 19 and to make thee high above all nations that He hath made, in praise, and in name, and in glory; and that thou may be a holy people unto the LORD thy God, as He hath spoken.
And so that you will be a holy people… as He spoke. [When He said]:“And you shall be holy to Me” (Lev. 20:26). – [Mechilta 12:78]
Rabbi Yossi Jankovits Shlita concludes this whole section with a short thought: It is interesting to note that we make mention of the lengths Hashem went to and not merely the fact that he removed us from
27:1 And Moses and the elders of
In seventy languages. — [Sotah 32a]
8 And thou shall write upon the stones all the words of this law very plainly.’ 9 And Moses and the priests the Levites spoke unto all
As it is found in Tractate Sotah (32a): Six tribes ascended to the top of Mount Gerizim and [the other] six to the top of Mount Ebal; the kohanim , the Levites and the [holy] ark stood below in the middle. The Levites turned their faces towards
I repeat myself here.
13 and these shall stand upon
… 28:68 And the LORD shall bring thee back into Egypt in ships, by the way whereof I said unto thee: ‘Thou shall see it no more again’; and there ye shall sell yourselves unto your enemies for bondmen and for bondwoman, and no man shall buy you.
In his stories about Eliyahu HaNovi, Rabbi Klapholtz, brings down the fact that there is no blessing to contra this curse. Eliyahu said that in the future the enemies of
Rashi however brings down the negative part of the curse: And there, you will seek to be sold to your enemies. You will wish to be sold to them as slaves and handmaids. But there will be no buyer. Because they will decree death and destruction upon you, and you will seek to be sold. Heb. וְהִתְמַכַּרְתֶּם, in Old French epor vandrez vos. [That is, the verb is in the reflexive conjugation. Accordingly,] it is incorrect to explain וְהִתְמַכַּרְתֶּם [as if in the passive conjugation, i.e.,] as וְנִמְכַּרְתֶּם, “and you will be sold”-sold by others-because the verse continues: “but there will be no buyer.” [Thus how could they be “sold by others” if there is “no buyer”?]
69 These are the words of the covenant which the LORD commanded Moses to make with the children of
That they should accept the Torah upon themselves with a curse and an oath, besides the covenant. [Namely,] the curses [which appear] in Lev. (26: 14-39), which were proclaimed at [Mount] Sinai.
29:1 And Moses called unto all Israel, and said unto them: Ye have seen all that the LORD did before your eyes in the land of Egypt unto Pharaoh, and unto all his servants, and unto all his land; 2 the great trials which your eyes saw, the signs and those great wonders; 3 but the LORD hath not given you a heart to know, and eyes to see, and ears to hear, unto this day. 4 And I have led you forty years in the wilderness; your clothes are not waxen old upon you, and thy shoe is not waxen old upon thy foot. 5 Ye have not eaten bread, neither have ye drunk wine or strong drink; that ye might know that I am the LORD your God. 6 And when ye came unto this place, Sihon the king of Heshbon, and Og the king of
Moshe ends with a historical reminder. We can learn from this for educational purposes one must learn over and over again the lessons from the past. Also the miracle of feeding and eating Mann (Manna) for an entire generation and they grew up healthy is a tremendous miracle which we take for granted. Also the miracle of clothing not wearing out for 40 years, no skin rash, no bad odors and walking in the same pair of shoes or sandals for 40 years without any problem. Even with the best hard soled rubber, the shoe’s bottom and instep wears out. All this the Bnei Yisrael took for granted but it was a combination of miracles. The concluding words of the Parsha are: just observe the Torah and do the Mitzvos and you will prosper.
Selichos starts this Motzei Shabbos so please note it is early this year.
Before requesting forgiveness with Selichos please read this from Rabbi S. Simmons: (Aish HaTorah)
Everyone knows that Adam and Eve made a bad mistake in the Garden of Eden. But was their primary mistake eating from the fruit? No. A look at the verses (Genesis 3:8-13) reveals something much deeper:
"[After eating, Adam and Eve] hid themselves from God among the trees of the Garden. God called to Adam and said: "Where are you?"
"I heard Your voice in the Garden, and I was afraid because I was naked, so I hid."
God asked: "Who told you that you are naked? Did you eat from the tree which I commanded you not to eat?"
Adam replied: "The woman that you gave to be with me - she gave me to eat from the tree."
So God said to the woman, "What is this that you have done?"
The woman said, "The serpent deceived me, and I ate."
Rashi explains the sequence: God obviously knows what Adam has done, yet He does not attack with an accusation. Rather, God strikes up a conversation, asking in a gentle, non-threatening way: "Where are you?" He gives Adam a chance to admit his mistake, and express regret. Instead Adam hides and blames it all on Eve. Eve passes responsibility off to the snake. Everyone claims they did nothing wrong! That was their worst mistake.
God knows we're not perfect - He's the one who created us this way! But He does expect us to take responsibility for our actions and admit when we've done wrong. Because without doing so, there is no hope to correct it in the future. This lesson can be applied to raising children. Imagine walking into the kitchen to find your child up on the counter and reaching his hand into the cookie jar. Don't accuse, don't attack, and don't back him into a corner. The deed of snatching cookies is already done; the only question that remains is how he will deal with the mistake. Try a casual, "Hey, what's goin' on with the cookies?" This gives him a chance to state the truth without feeling threatened.
ANTI-SUPPRESSANT
Why is it that so many people have trouble admitting when they're wrong? One possible reason is that without an absolute standard of right and wrong, there may be no compelling reason to admit wrongdoing. Newsweek magazine reports:
"You got to court and the guy is looking at you, like, 'What's your problem? So what if I killed your son?'" says Virginia Irick, whose teenage son was murdered a several years ago in
In Western society, aversion to apology is a widespread malady. Whether somebody cuts another off in traffic, or destroys a marriage, admitting guilt is out of vogue. In fact, pop psychology has done all it can to remove whole concept of "guilt" from our lexicon. It's much easier to rationalize our mistakes away. And it's unhealthy to feel guilt, they say. "Suppress it!"
On one level, this suppression is unhealthy. When we refuse to admit, it is depressing and paralyzing. The regret stays inside and festers.
On another level, this suppression is downright dangerous. When one repeats an inappropriate act, he will eventually come to rationalize it as proper. The Nazi Himmler wrote that in his own personal experience with killing Jews, the turning point came when he was able to fall asleep at night without any guilt. He knew then that he'd crossed the point of no return.
SAY IT OUT LOUD
This week's Parsha provides an important tool for admitting our mistakes:
"When you have finished taking all the tithes of your grain ... make the following declaration before God: "I have removed all the sacred portions ... I have given the appropriate portions to the Levite, the orphan and the widow..." (Deut. 26:12-13)
The Torah is telling us that to evaluate our spiritual status properly, the key ingredient is to speak it out loud. "Make the following declaration before God" - i.e. articulate verbally where we have succeeded and where we have failed.
The ArtScroll Machzor explains:
"As an intelligent, thinking, imaginative being, man has all sorts of thoughts flashing constantly through his mind. Even sublime thoughts of remorse and self-improvement are not strange to him, but they do not last. For his thoughts to have lasting meaning, he must distill them into words, because the process of thought culminates when ideas are expressed and clarified.
"That is not as easy as it sounds. It is usually excruciatingly difficult for people to admit explicitly that they have done wrong. We excuse ourselves. We refuse to admit the truth. We shift blame. We deny the obvious. We excel at rationalizing. But the person who wrenches from himself the unpleasant truth, 'I have sinned,' has performed a great and meaningful act."
TALKING TO YOURSELF
This lesson is crucial as we approach the High Holidays, the time when we stand in front of the mirror and see the stark reality of who we are. Maimonides explains:
"For every Mitzvah in the Torah that a person transgresses, he needs to confess before God ... What does this consist of? The person says: 'God, I have sinned before you; I have done this specific act; I am ashamed of my actions; and I will never do it again." (Laws of Teshuva 1:1)
In Judaism, confession is a totally private matter, between you and God. In fact, the Hebrew word for confession - li-heet-vadot - is the "reflexive" form which connotes acting upon oneself. Though we speak to God, He knows the truth already. The problem is when we're not willing to admit the truth to ourselves. As the prophet Jeremiah says, "God will judge us when we say 'I didn't sin.'"
Incredibly, the incident of Adam and Eve occurred on the very first Rosh Hashana, the day that humanity was born. Rosh Hashana is thus the most opportune day to repair that mistake. May these holidays be a time of spiritual growth for us all.
Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Shraga Simmons
Inyanay Diyoma
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Dov Shiurim returns to singing after being broken by the Gush Katif evacuation: http://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-3596333,00.html
Some Jews die in Aeroflot crash: http://www.debka.com/headline.php?hid=5580
A week ago the KGB-STASI of Olmert stopped buses from going to criticize and picket the house of the general in charge of Yehuda and Shomron who signed the expulsion order of Meir Bretler who according to the Jerusalem Post of Yediot Achronot is on the top of the list of trouble makers. Meir and another soldier brought an empty gas canister into the central bus station in Yerushalayim about two or three years ago and wrote: “
Crying Wolf
Strategically the Presidential Candidate and Party should attack the other Presidential Candidate. However, they have chosen in my opinion a blunder by attacking the vice-Presidential Candidate. The last governor with only two years experience in office to be vice-President was also a Bull-Moose type – Theodore Roosevelt.
I get e-mails that are anti and pro Palin on a daily basis examples: http://www.politico.com/news/stories/0908/13098.html
http://www.israeltoday.co.il/default.aspx?tabid=178&nid=17145
Every card carrying member of the Democratic Party has been sending out a vicious e-mail implying that Sarah Palin has been mass murdering wolves in
I am canceling my subscription to Defenders of Wildlife as they have a political agenda. I believe in protecting nature but come on do you want a pack of man-eating wolves or man-eating polar bears coming down the streets of your city? Give me a break please. These idiots will save a few wolves with their
agenda while 5,700,000 Israeli Jews get nuked.
Please fwd this to you list. Palin was at the Republican Convention with an Israeli 60th anniversary pin on her lapel. She also as I showed you in the video clip has an Israeli flag in her office. Biden attacked Begin in 1982. Who was the Chicago Lawyer who defended the Arabs in
I received this directly from Reuven and it is my guest editorial this week:
Copyright © R. Kossover, 2008 Published 14 September in Blogcritics Magazine
While Americans have been paying attention to their presidential race, things have been happening around them. Perhaps Sarah Palin brings everything a newsman wants in a story, controversy, sex and a pretty face. So, it falls to this writer to talk about the unpleasant things happening in and around the
First of all, an American consul general finally admitted what everybody has known for months and has been denying - that the Israeli government has been talking about splitting up
If that were the only bad news, well, one could live with it. The Israeli government has been committing treason since it agreed to surrender Judea and
First the good news, an old article from 12 July about extending the term of the head of the Mossad (Israel's spy agency) into 2009 according to the article,
by extending the Mossad director, Meir Dagan's tenure for another year until the end of 2009, Israeli prime minister Ehud Olmert has put in place a vital constituent for a possible eleventh-hour unilateral strike at
Given that the Islamic Republic has threatened to wipe us off the map, a pre-emptive strike to retard these efforts is the very least we in
While the Americans twist the knife in
This may not have been news to
According to Debkafiles, Israeli officials remain oblivious to the threat of direct Iranian control over Hizballah by the Iranian terrorist network. It appears that American officials remain oblivious to the growing threat to them as well. Well, actually one American did not seem oblivious to the growing Russian threat. Asked about it in an interview Thursday, Sarah Palin said, "you can't blink" - even if that meant conflict with
Hmm .... Let's see how this might develop.
Two Russian Tu-160 strategic bombers land in Venezuela, nuclear battle cruiser on way (Debkafiles 10 September), Iran diverts UF6 uranium from Isfahan to boost covert military nuclear project (Debkafiles 12 September), Russia lines up with Syria, Iran against America and the West (Debkafiles 12 September). This article deals with the fact that a permanent Russian presence in the
In aligning with
That's sort of it for the bad news. Well, almost. This e-mail came to me from a lady who is a veteran in the news business. Dear ____ , My contacts in the governments in both
This person has had close personal relationships with I believe every Israeli P.M since Shamir, and is in and out of the White House like a fiddler's elbow. He is reliable and very truthful. I don't feel comfortable passing on what amounts to a rumor. But on the other hand, I don't feel comfortable not publicizing this somehow. So, make of this what you will.
But the point that Debkafiles makes about the Israeli government - that it is leaderless and paralyzed - is the opening for what this writer views as the good news coming out of the region - and one of the few signs of hope for the People of Israel.
Last week, on 11 September, it was reported in the Jerusalem Post, "that soldiers clashed with settlers near the settlement of Yitzhar, south of
Let's see, a Jew fires into the air to defend himself from an Arab mob, and he is taken into custody, forced to explain his behavior. The Arab mob, which had attempted to murder him by pelting stones at his car was allowed to go free. A teenager protesting the illegal expulsion of Jews is jailed for months and called an enemy to the state, while when Arabs murder Jews routinely, the state does nothing. This has been the "narrative" of events for several years now. It is about time that Jews stopped asking for their rights as citizens and started taking them.
Arutz Sheva reported this evening that when an Arab terrorist stabbed a boy near Yitzhar, the residents attacked an Arab village. According to the article, An Arab terrorist stabbed a nine-year-old boy at the Shalhevet (named after
However, the good news here is that Jews finally are demonstrating that they no longer fear Arabs and that the violence between Jews and Arabs in Samaria has changed in its nature, with Jews attacking Arabs when Arabs attack Jews.
For Israelis or people without TV who want to know what Gov. Palin said on
Tank Defense System Delayed: http://www.jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?cid=1221489040961&pagename=JPost%2FJPArticle%2FShowFull
US WON'T HELP ISRAEL ATTACK IRAN by ZE'EV BEN-YECHIEL forwarded with major comments by Emanuel A. Winston, a Middle East Analyst & Commentator
Bush and Rice have launched a propaganda campaign to silence their critics over their plan to stop Israel from taking out Iran's Nuclear Threat. Bush-Rice and the State Department is allowing the sale of one thousand bunker-buster bombs while insuring that Israel will not be able to deliver those bombs. Bush, like his father, George Herbert Walker Bush, will not allow Israel to attack her adversaries but will keep up the propaganda to the Media and the American people by dribbling out radar, anti-missile missiles and bunker-busters - all of which seem to look like they're helping
Bush-Rice and the State Department will leave as their legacy a Hitlerian regime called Iran, armed with nuclear weapons, as a result of Russia's assistance.
Perhaps the end plan is to wait until
Sounds like a typical Bush-Rice-Baker scenario in synch with the Saudis who would like to see
Israel gets the chance to be a martyred State under the guidance of the Left and those American Jews who thought they would be safe in America, they get the chance to build another dozen Holocaust Museums to dead Jews.
As for AIPAC (the American-Israel Public Affairs Committee), it died a quiet death after Morrie Amitay left as Director. Now they merely raise money and seem to be under the thumb of the Condoleezza Rice State Department. They prepare a neat package to complete the pretense that the Jews of
Not so. The Jews of
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US WON'T HELP
From Tsila: After three years of waiting, Prime Minister Ehud Olmert quietly has granted permission to the Muslim custodians of the Temple Mount to repair and enhance Quranic verses plastered around Judaism's holiest site. Read the latest now on http://wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=75488
I am not going to discuss the victory of TZ. Livni by a hair or the resignation of Shaul Mofaz out of disgust for her inability to lead and only to divide Yerushalayim and give everything possible away without ever addressing the Iranian issue. Perhaps more next week.
It is a little early for the Good Shabbos Story to arrive.
Be well and have a wonderful Shabbos,
Rachamim Pauli